Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Tuesday November 27, 2012

Hello everyone!

Yesterday was an exciting day for me. The Eritrea National Football Team had invited me to attend their opening match against Zanzibar in the 2012 CECAFA Tusker Challenge. Not only did they invite me to attend their game, but they allowed me to ride to and from the game with them. Once there, I found myself sitting on the team bench throughout the match. So how is that? My first ever football (soccer) game, and to have such a great seat at the beautiful Nelson Mandela National Stadium here in Kampala, Uganda.

After the match ended in a 0-0 tie, the team asked me to join them for dinner held in their honor by some in the Eritrean community here in Uganda. Using injera as the platform, the coach piled my plate high with what he thought I should taste. Those of you who know me well, know that I'm a picky eater, but everything was great!

You guys can do your own research on the Country of Eritrea, but I can tell you that these young men have represented their country very well. They have all invited me come to their country for a visit. I'm very likely to take them up on that offer some day.

One of the blessings that God has given me is the ability to meet people. For that, I am so thankful! Actually, I think that God blessed us all with that ability. Unfortunately, we sometimes let fear take over. Satan uses fear as one of his biggest tools to stop the spread of Jesus Christ. The best way I know to spread his love is for us to love each other. We can only do that by taking the time to get to know each other.

I'm challenging each of you that read this blog to stop sometime today and just say "hi" to someone you don't know. Maybe you have seen them, but you don't know them. Stop today and just say "hello!" Ask them "how they are doing?" and wait for an answer.

Relationships are all around if we just take a moment to see them. I've been blessed with meeting my new friends. Don't miss out on What God is blessing you with today.

I'm heading back to Soroti tomorrow with a repaired vehicle ready for its next battle with the roads. Thank you for your prayers!

Tom Cox

Friday, November 9, 2012

Friday November 9, 2012

Hello everyone!

This has been an incredible week here in Uganda. It has been a solid week with some of my Church Family that I miss dearly. Gloria, Kim, Jackie, Jimmy and Sean, thank you for coming to Uganda! All of you have been here before, so you understand the calling. Uganda has a way of touching you like nothing I have ever experienced before.

Uganda can be tough. It has rained every day this week. My poor car has been stuck twice. I think the rear springs now need replaced. The bumper was ripped off while attempting to get out of the mud. Uganda just flexed her muscles a bit this week. She just wanted us to know a sample of how tough she can be.

This week has caused me to look within myself. I'm thankful of the relationships I have with those who came. Its safe for them to say whats on their mind and to give me their opinions. I'm not going to lie. Sometimes that's tough. Am I becoming callous to the problems that are all around? The need here is so much. Have I shut down the part of me that cares so much about Uganda? It's true that things I see today don't have the same affect on me that they used to. I saw that this week with the reactions I saw from the others. I do remember feeling the way they have felt this week.

So how does that happen? Now this is just my opinion, so take it for hat it is, but when everyday presents you with some need, how do you react? I can't help everyone and I can't fix everything. I like to think that I am a glass half full kind of guy. I like to focus on what is going good here, not what is going bad. And there are a lot of things going good here. Kids are healthier, men and women are working, I see more parents involved with their kids. Everyday I learn more about Jesus here. More about His love, more about His provision, more about Him. On the other side of the coin, I learn a lot more about whats bad.

One day, I here from a young lady that has moved to Denmark, so that she can find work. She has been looking here for over two years. I met another young lady who told me she was taking a job in the UAE. She too has a college degree, but hasn't been able to find work. Girls here who go out of country to find jobs are usually forced into some sort of human slavery. Today I met a young mother, 17, who was promised, by the father of her baby, that if she could produce for him a child, he would marry her. Now that she has produced, he is no where to be seen. Everyday there is another person, with another problem.

Let me be very clear about something. Ugandans are not lazy. When there's work to be done, they are there. Both times this week that I was stuck in the mud, here were plenty of Ugandans right there to help.

So how do we help? How can I help? The answer is...... I don't know! I simply don't know. What I do know is, is that God has a plan. We are his children. The people here are my brothers, sisters, sons, and daughters. My heart breaks for them. My heart also swells every time they tell me welcome home or every time they call me by name. God gives me a lot in return for the little that breaks.

Its been great having my friends here! Please pray for the rest of their trip, and their safe flight home.

Please keep praying for me!

Tom Cox

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Hello everyone! Greetings from Soroti, Uganda!

Yesterday was an amazing day. It started with a car that wouldn't start, but finished with some great news from our Care Points!

Getting the car started was as simple as buying a new battery. I'm blessed to have the means to do that here in Uganda. Most here would would have to wait a month to have the money to go buy a battery. The battery cost me about 200,000 UGX or 3 1/2 months of the salary we pay our workers at the care point. To us in the USA, it cost me just under $100.00.

On my way to Ngariam, I picked up a hitch hiker. She was a young mother who had graduated from University in 2010 with a degree in Developmental Studies. She has yet to find a job. She was walking to Katakwi (about a 30 minute drive) to apply for a job. I told her I was going to Ngariam, and if she was still there in Katakwi on my way back, I would be happy to take her home. She agreed, and we found a place for her to wait for me.

After dropping her in Katakwi, I continued to Ngariam, where I was greeted with hugs and warm wishes, along with questions about my trip home. Also, it was a great sight to see them using the borehole that we had just completed on our last trip.

Now for the great news. This past rainy season has been particularly bad. Our gardens and those gardens around us have been flooded with water. They had been flooded with water so long that we were afraid we were going to lose everything. Glory to God!!!!! Our gardens have now dried out and it appears that we have no significant damage. I was unprimed to find that they had already harvested around 35 bags of peanuts. These are big bags! And there's still more to harvest. Their great tating peanuts as well!

Thank you Jesus for all you do!

As I headed back to Soroti, I stopped by Katakwi to pick up the young lady who I had dropped to apply for a job. She was in good spirits, but was told to come back next year. She explained that the position they were currently trying to fill was in a different field, but that she should try back next year, their budget may allow them to hire another person. She said that she offered to volunteer until such a time might become available for them to hire her.

Such is the attitude of many that I meet in Uganda. They just want an opportunity to work. Getting an education is great and very important, but someone has to create jobs. I can't tell you how many people I meet here in Uganda that have college degrees, yet there are no jobs to be had. The unemployment here is somewhere around 65%. Handouts are not the solution. These people, all people, need jobs! They want jobs!

Just as I previously stated with regards to the cost of the battery, starting a business is very hard to do when you lack the financial resources to do so. Loans here come at a rate of 24% to 30% interest. Who can afford that? I'm happy about the jobs we have created with our farm project. We just have to make it sustainable. And we will!

If any of you want to help with this project, we spend about $2,000.00 a month, trying to employ about 34 people. Send me an email at tomcoxokc@gmail.com. These workers are held accountable!
I'll let you know how you can help.

Thanks for your time. More importantly, thank you for your prayers!

Tom Cox

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Heading Back - 10/16/2012

Yesterday was a very busy day. Some of those things that I had put off, because I had plenty of time, suddenly became impossible to do. Saying last minute goodbyes! Getting that shampoo. What about that bible that someone had requested you bring? How can you not bring someone a bible. It never ceases to amaze me how many things are left till that last moment. As hard as I try, it always gets busy the day before I leave.

Well here I am, on my first leg of the flight. Atlanta will be here before I know it, than its Amsterdam, a quick stop in Kigali, Rwanda, than finally, Uganda. I've missed my friends there. It will be good to see them, just as it was good to get back to Oklahoma City. It seems I have become the man with two homes.

Thank you all for your prayers! I was especially moved this morning when my brother, while dropping me at the airport, stopped everything to pray for me. I need those prayers more than I can explain or even know. It's hard not being plugged into your Church.

"Blow, Mighty Breath of God!"

I love that song!

"Power and Grace!"

Keep me in your prayers!

Tom Cox

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Over Due Blogging Part 2 - July 3, 2012

I am adding Part 1 to the top of this to make it easier!

Part 1


Hello all,

Sorry it has been so long since I last blogged. It has now been 6 weeks here in Uganda, and the first time I have blogged since I returned. A lot has happened so I will try to recap some of what has been going on.

First, about three days after I arrived here, a team from Harrah arrived for their first official visit to the village they are now sponsoring, Wera. Two days into their visit here, I was jumping rope with some of the kids and, well, those of you who know me can imagine the amount of pure energy it takes to get me off the ground. If you can imagine that, you can also imagine the impact when landing from an amazing two inch vertical jump. Needless to say......... I hurt my back. Nothing serious, it just needed some time to refresh, but that would have to wait until Harrah went home.

Mean while, Harrah had their own problems. It seems the airline they had used had their own ideas as to how important it was to get their bags. Harrah had come here with the intention of installing a water well. Since their bags were three days late in getting here, it put a damper on being able to finish the well. They did, however, complete the drilling process. They just weren't able to get the pump installed. I told them "no problem, I'll get that installed for you". I just wanted to take a couple of days and rest my back. I did that and things were fine, until, Uganda showed me a little of what she is capable of.

Malaria 911! The people that stay at the house with me are amazing. They realized immediately that something was wrong with me and strongly suggested that I go and get a Malaria test. I wasn't feeling so well, so I asked one of the young men to drive me to the clinic to get tested. Immaculate, who cooks for me and just really takes care of me, accompanied us to the clinic. Sure enough, I test plus two for Malaria. The good news was, they had caught it early, the bad news is, that is all they tested me for. I'll explain that later. So, I was given the medication and sent home. All this, before the symptoms ever really started to show themselves. Sounds great huh!

So on the way home, the young man driving me, was making a turn, and failed to see a woman crossing the road. He knocked her down with the corner of the car. Luckily, he wasn't going fast at all, but when she tried to catch her fall, she broke her wrist. We loaded her into the car and after my adrenaline had kicked in, I drove her to the local hospital, only a block away. Unfortunately, we were followed there by the local police. The police knew that I wasn't the one driving the car, but they still impounded my car for a few days so that they could inspect the vehicle. The amazing thing was the faith that this woman had. The first thing she said was "God Loves Me!" She knew that God had saved her. That is one of the amazing thing about Ugandans, they always find the good in everything.

That night was not a good night for me. The symptoms were starting to show their ugly heads. Drenching sweats followed by uncontrollable shivering followed by drenching sweats. The process just kept repeating itself. At least during the shivering, I would get some sleep. Its easier to sleep when your cold than when you are hot.

The next morning, I received a call from Dr. Peter in Mbale about 2 hours drive from Soroti. He had heard that I had contracted Malaria and advised that I come to Mbale as soon as possible, by any means necessary. My car had been impounded, and I was now feeling the full affect. My friend Becker, who drives a taxi was called and he immediatley gave up his taxi for the day and was at the house within 30 minutes to take me to Mbale. Once there, I was taken to a room at the hospital and given hot water packs to warm me up. Afterwards, I was given two shots within the course of an hour. After about two hours, I was sent home.

The next day, I felt much better, but continued to take my medicine as directed. Dr. Peter called daily to check on me. After the medication was over however, I continued to have these very bad headaches. Dr. Peter had me come back to Mbale for some more test. The test revealed that the Malaria was gone, but Typhoid had reared its ugly head. Fortunately, I had just renewed my vaccination for Typhois and it was battling the Typhoid. I was given another treatment ack, this one stronger and intended to fight the Typhoid. Three days later, the headaches were gone.

I'm better now. Thanks to a lot of prayers, a very good doctor, and some very great people here that really take care of me.

My battery is about to die on my laptop, but I will continue later with the great things that are going on here in Uganda. Love you all and thanks for your prayers!

Tom Cox
This is Part 2, Please Read Part One First!

Its now Tuesday morning here in Uganda. I'm at the Sky Hotel here in Naalya, Uganda about to have some breakfast. The laptop is fully charged, so I hope to finish the update I started last night. Let me just start by saying that I am fine. I feel great. As many people have told me here, I finally know what it is like to be a Ugandan. I disagree, the Malaria and Typhoid are just the tip of the ice-burg for what they go through here. I've never once in my life wondered where my next meal would come from or whether I would eat that day or the next. In my life, I've always had many choices as to what clothes I would wear that day. It seems so silly now, but when I remember a day when I was in kindergarten that I sat in my room all day long because I didn't like what I had to wear to school that day. I remember my mom telling me that if I couldn't figure out what to wear, I would have to stay in my room all day. That was before we had TV's and video games in our rooms. I sat there all day without a single thing to do. How stubborn and selfish is that? Enough about that!

Just as I recovered, it was time for Caleb and Jake to arrive from Water4. They were to arrive on Thursday night. Unfortunately, their flight was delayed a day in Chicago and another day once they arrived in Brussels. They didn't get here until Saturday night. They were scheduled to return on Tuesday. That's a lot of traveling for only three nights in Uganda. Regardless, they arrived Saturday night, minus one bag that still has not been located. We spent the night in Entebbe and headed straight to Rukungiri located in Western Uganda on Sunday morning. About five hours into the seven in a half hour drive, my car just died. I put it in neutral and it started right back up only to die a few minutes later. Since we were going down the road when it happened, we were able to coast right into Masaka and right into a Total gas station where they had mechanics on hand. By the time I found a mechanic, he came over to the car and it started right up. It wouldn't die again, so it was impossible for him to diagnose what the problem was. We got his phone number in case it happened again and we were off to Rukungiri. We had no more problems getting there. Just for a reference, Western Uganda is the mountainous part of Uganda and is probably the prettiest. On the way, you pass small herds of Zebra that are running wild.

Once in Rukungiri, we were met anxiously by Sue Morgan, a great woman from the UK, that works here in Uganda along with her husband, Simon. Simon works for a group out of the UK called Mission Direct and Sue has founded a group called Water Direct (I think that is what it is called). Regardless, Sue works with an amazing Ugandan named Sunday. Sue and Sunday were who Water4 had come to see, and I was welcomed with great hospitality. Sue cooked some spaghetti and meat balls that were a real treat. There is nothing I could type here that would describe how much I enjoyed that meal.

On Monday, we all piled into Sue's car while Sunday drove us to a borehole they were currently working on. It was a shallow well, but Sunday was showing us some new techniques he was working on. It was nice to see how well his men worked together. This group has hand dug more than twenty wells with only one failing to find water. They gave up on the one after they had dug over eighty feet (80') deep. That's eighty feet (80') by hand! I think that more than proves the success that Water4 is having with their equipment.

After a day of encouragement and celebration with Sunday and Sue, we worked on educating me more on installing the pump. How to measure it right and get it installed. I had previously had problems finding the right parts in Soroti to put the well together. Sunday was able to get me the right parts I was missing and I was now able to take them to the local supply house in Soroti so that they could order them for me. it was time well spent on my part, as I was able to get some valuable information.

Caleb had been here before and had to get back to Oklahoma for things he had previously scheduled. Jake, however, is an intern at Water4 and had never been to Uganda or anywhere else in Africa. He didn't have anything pressing to get back to. So after discussing it with Jake and his family back home, they were able to contact the airlines and get his flight pushed back to Saturday night. Jake would come back to Soroti with me.

Tuesday morning arrived and we headed back to Entebbe to take Caleb back to the airport. I had not driven my car since we had arrived in Rukungiri, but it had made it there without anymore problems. We drove making great time until about 25 km outside of Kampala. The car died again. This time, it would not start. Mafabi answered his phone like he always does when I need him. He dropped everything he was doing, found a mechanic and headed our way. The mechanic was able to get it started, but it would only go about 1 km before dieing again. We ended up leaving my car there with the mechanic and Mafabi drove us to a hotel in Entebbe where Jake and I would stay. When the time came for Caleb to go to the airport, we utilized the hotel's shuttle bus to take us to the airport. While there, Jake and I looked for his lost luggage. Two hours later and what seemed like a hundred forms, we headed back to the hotel with the luggage still lost.

Wednesday morning arrived with Mafabi showing up with my car declaring that the mechanic had fixed it. As we departed the hotel, it died again. Mafabi told me had drove the car last night and I know it was a two hour drive for him to get to the hotel that morning to pick us up. It hadn't had any problems. He was abe to get it started again so I asked him if there was a place where they could run a computer diagnostics on the car. He found a place, so we went. The problem though, nothing showed up as being wrong and no error codes. After some consulting, they suggested what they thought might be wrong, but they didn't have the parts to fix it, so we went to another place that Mafabi frequently uses. The problem was, once we arrived there, they had their own ideas as to what might be wrong. I looked at Mafabi and boldly said, "Replace everything that anyone thought might be the problem". The total cost of all those repairs was less than two hundred dollars. At four o'clock, we were off to Soroti without any more problems and no problems since. It was 10:30 pm by the time we reached Soroti and we were both exhausted so off to bed we went.

Thursday morning I let Jake sleep in while I went to town to get cement and a few tools that we would need to install the water pump in Wera for Harrah. We loaded up a few things from the house that we would need and finally we were off to Wera to prepare the bore hole to install the pump. When we arrived in Wera, I found Naboth, a great man there in Wera who quickly rounded up some men to come and do the work. This water well is for them, so they need to be the ones who do the work. They do this enthusiastically. They begin plunging and purging the bore hole. Its a long and time consuming process, but it is what cleans the well to make it useable. While they did that, Jake and I headed to Obuleajet to take a look at the well that we had previously installed at one of our Carepoints. In addition to the water well, Jake was able to see the work project and meet some of the worked there. After Obuleajet, we headed to Ngariam to say hello to Rose and see the work project there.

Near by, there was a group from Atlanta that had been spending some time at their Carepoint giving eyeglasses to over eight hundred (800) people through a group called Gods Eyes out of Atlanta, Georgia. They were at the end of their trip and were headed back to Soroti. Fortunately, Wera is on the way back to Soroti and they were able to stop by and see the well that was being put in. It also gave them an opportunity to play with some more kids for just a short moment. Also, Jake would now be on the same flight out of Uganda with them. It was getting late by now, so we stopped the plunging and purging of the well and started the process of pouring concrete to provide a base for which the pump would be installed upon. We would install the pump on Friday. After the concrete work was done, we headed to Soroti to eat dinner with our new friends from Atlanta.

Friday morning arrived and Jake and I were going back to Wera. We had gone by the local supply house to get a few parts and tools that we would need to install the pump. We stopped by to eat breakfast with the group from Atlanta. They were headed to Jinja for the day. We would meet them there later but our goal was to get to Wera and get the pump done as soon as possible. We wanted to reach Jinja ourselves before it became dark outside. I didn't want another night of driving. Drivers here don't know how to dim their lights!

When we reached Wera, we discovered that it had rained there the nigh before. It was dry now, but the rain had slowed the drying of the concrete. The anchors we had installed to seal the pump had not set up correctly, so we would have to dig them out of the concrete and redo our anchoring system. It was now a waiting game. In the meantime, we made our measurements and laid out the piping for the water pump. We were determined to get it done and we did! It was later than we had expected and wanted, but when we left, we gave them instructions to let the pump set over the weekend so that everything would set up correctly. They would finish with the concrete work, putting a base around the bottom of the pump and a drain for any water that missed the buckets that would filled. That last thing you want is a place for mosquitoes to gather. We were now off to Soroti to clean up and pack our things. It was now time to head to Jinja.

Jake and I reached Jinja at 10:30 pm. We were greeted by some of the group from Atlanta but most of them were already in bed, exhausted from their own week of experiences here in Uganda. We had a very late lunch/dinner but I know I had a very long hot shower and a great nights rest afterwards. We would visit the team from Atlanta the next morning for breakfast. After breakfast, we all went for a boat ride on the River Nile. We road along the shoreline looking at different birds, monitor lizards, and monkeys. At the mouth of the Nile River, there is an island that we stop at. You can take pictures, buy things and use the restroom if you need to. It was there that I got the phone call. The plane they were all supposed to fly out on had been cancelled. that's right, the entire flight had been cancelled.

There were some very mixed emotions about this. They were all tired and ready to get home. This happens. You have prepared yourself to go home. Jake, I think, half expected this. Nothing about his flights on this trip had been normal. The good news, though, was that the airline was going to put them all up at a resort in Kampala. It was another 24 hours that I would get to know some of the people from Atlanta. They were 24 hours that I wouldn't give back. They are some amazing people with some amazing testimonies as to the Wonders and Miracles of our Heavenly Father.

As for Jake, he is an amazing young man of God. He is a Christ follower! He is a son that that anyone would be proud to have. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with him. He has a very bright future ahead of him and I'm proud to now call him a friend.

You are now caught up!

Thanks again for your prayers!

Tom Cox

ps, the spell check is not working on this, so please ignore the misspellings!

Monday, July 2, 2012

Over Due Blogging - July 2, 2012

Part 1

Hello all,

Sorry it has been so long since I last blogged. It has now been 6 weeks here in Uganda, and the first time I have blogged since I returned. A lot has happened so I will try to recap some of what has been going on.

First, about three days after I arrived here, a team from Harrah arrived for their first official visit to the village they are now sponsoring, Wera. Two days into their visit here, I was jumping rope with some of the kids and, well, those of you who know me can imagine the amount of pure energy it takes to get me off the ground. If you can imagine that, you can also imagine the impact when landing from an amazing two inch vertical jump. Needless to say......... I hurt my back. Nothing serious, it just needed some time to refresh, but that would have to wait until Harrah went home.

Mean while, Harrah had their own problems. It seems the airline they had used had their own ideas as to how important it was to get their bags. Harrah had come here with the intention of installing a water well. Since their bags were three days late in getting here, it put a damper on being able to finish the well. They did, however, complete the drilling process. They just weren't able to get the pump installed. I told them "no problem, I'll get that installed for you". I just wanted to take a couple of days and rest my back. I did that and things were fine, until, Uganda showed me a little of what she is capable of.

Malaria 911! The people that stay at the house with me are amazing. They realized immediately that something was wrong with me and strongly suggested that I go and get a Malaria test. I wasn't feeling so well, so I asked one of the young men to drive me to the clinic to get tested. Immaculate, who cooks for me and just really takes care of me, accompanied us to the clinic. Sure enough, I test plus two for Malaria. The good news was, they had caught it early, the bad news is, that is all they tested me for. I'll explain that later. So, I was given the medication and sent home. All this, before the symptoms ever really started to show themselves. Sounds great huh!

So on the way home, the young man driving me, was making a turn, and failed to see a woman crossing the road. He knocked her down with the corner of the car. Luckily, he wasn't going fast at all, but when she tried to catch her fall, she broke her wrist. We loaded her into the car and after my adrenaline had kicked in, I drove her to the local hospital, only a block away. Unfortunately, we were followed there by the local police. The police knew that I wasn't the one driving the car, but they still impounded my car for a few days so that they could inspect the vehicle. The amazing thing was the faith that this woman had. The first thing she said was "God Loves Me!" She knew that God had saved her. That is one of the amazing thing about Ugandans, they always find the good in everything.

That night was not a good night for me. The symptoms were starting to show their ugly heads. Drenching sweats followed by uncontrollable shivering followed by drenching sweats. The process just kept repeating itself. At least during the shivering, I would get some sleep. Its easier to sleep when your cold than when you are hot.

The next morning, I received a call from Dr. Peter in Mbale about 2 hours drive from Soroti. He had heard that I had contracted Malaria and advised that I come to Mbale as soon as possible, by any means necessary. My car had been impounded, and I was now feeling the full affect. My friend Becker, who drives a taxi was called and he immediatley gave up his taxi for the day and was at the house within 30 minutes to take me to Mbale. Once there, I was taken to a room at the hospital and given hot water packs to warm me up. Afterwards, I was given two shots within the course of an hour. After about two hours, I was sent home.

The next day, I felt much better, but continued to take my medicine as directed. Dr. Peter called daily to check on me. After the medication was over however, I continued to have these very bad headaches. Dr. Peter had me come back to Mbale for some more test. The test revealed that the Malaria was gone, but Typhoid had reared its ugly head. Fortunately, I had just renewed my vaccination for Typhois and it was battling the Typhoid. I was given another treatment ack, this one stronger and intended to fight the Typhoid. Three days later, the headaches were gone.

I'm better now. Thanks to a lot of prayers, a very good doctor, and some very great people here that really take care of me.

My battery is about to die on my laptop, but I will continue later with the great things that are going on here in Uganda. Love you all and thanks for your prayers!

Tom Cox

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Back In Uganda - June

Hello everyone from Soroti, Uganda!

It has been a while since my last post, but since the last posting, I had went back to Oklahoma, moved out of my house in order to rent it out to an incredible young man.... Jimmy Reed. The time back in Oklahoma City flew by. Probably the highlight of being home was seeing my younger sister marry Kevin Cole. In fact, I was honored to have been asked to marry them. It was an honor!

One of the good things about being in Uganda is the quality time you get to spend with those you love when you return home. Sometimes I forget just how fortunate I am to have so many people that love me and really want to spend time with me. It was tough getting it all squeezed in. Next time I won't be moving and there won't be a wedding. (at least I don't think....... Tyler)

So today, a new beginning has happened here in Soroti. By now, most of you know that I personally sponsor a brother and a sister, Emma and Phoebe. Phoebe, at the time of profiling, was already pregnant, with a little boy named Nathan. Since than, she has had another, a little girl named Nora. Because of this, Phoebe has never been able to take advantage of what Children's Hopechest has to offer. The day before I left Obuleajet the last time, the father of those two kids had beat her and ran her off. Leaving her to fend for two kids, and herself.

While I was in Oklahoma, Julius, our Social Worker, began looking into schools here in Soroti, where Phoebe could learn a trade while being a mother at the same time. He also found a school here in Soroti for Emma that will provide him with a better education.

So like I said, today has been a big day. I am glad to tell you all that I now have, living with me, Emma, Phoebe, Nathan and Nora. They have started their schooling and so have I.

Keep me in your prayers! Keep them in your prayers! This is a big adjustment for them.

Tom Cox

Monday, March 12, 2012

Name Dropping! - March 12th, 2012

Tomorrow is a very big day!

About the time everyone in Oklahoma City is going to bed tonight, tomorrow will have arrived here in Uganda. And tomorrow is when I head back to Soroti from Kampala. Not just me, but this trip will include Maurice Kirya, The Godfather of Ugandan Soul Music, and his Manager, Onyait Odeke. Yes...... I just name dropped!

This is a big deal for many reasons. But I'll start with one of the things that I feel passionate about. One is that I have come to realize that most Ugandans don't realize what is going on here in their own back yard. Having Maurice and Onyait stop what they are doing while simultaneously try to get his latest album released is a huge sacrifice of their time and lets face it, their money. They haven't told me this,and they wouldn't, but I know. But they are both going to a part of Uganda that they have never been to. They have both visited villages, but from where I have traveled, the villages that we support are in the worst condition.

Joseph Kony has been in the social media spotlight for the past week. That is great, no matter where you fall in the controversy, Joseph Kony is a bad man. In 2006, the Ugandan Army was able to push Joseph Kony and the LRA out of Uganda. They have chased him into the Democratic Republic of Congo, they have chased him into Sudan and wherever else that he has been known to have fled. But for over twenty years he wreaked havoc on Uganda. The LRA combined with the cattle rustlers of the Karamojong have torn the lives of these people apart.They have been living in Internally Displaced Persons (IDP) camps for years. This happens when people flee their homes to seek shelter in numbers.

These IDP camps bred their own problems. Fathers were dying in war or while protecting their cattle left widows and fatherless children who were left to fend for themselves without the father figure there to help teach and discipline the curious children. Promiscuity led to STD's of which, HIV claimed many more lives. At one point, I believe the average life span in Uganda was 42 to 45 years. It is now up to 55, but lets face it, that's not much better.

Well meaning NGO's (Non Government Organizations) have sprung up all over here in Uganda, but many times, in its simplest terms, its a truck pulling up with boxes that are unloaded and left behind for the people to use, but it left no responsibility or drive what what men have remained. This is where I plug the book, "When Helping Hurts". That book was an eye-opener for me. Sometimes what we do in the best of intentions does more harm than good.

Maurice taking his time to come and encourage these men and women for the work that they have done on this project is a big deal. He's not coming with a box of goods, but rather with a word of encouragement from a fellow Ugandan. Hearing someone say "good Job!" goes a long, long way. Having someone with the respect and ears of his fellow Ugandans tell you "good job!" is an even bigger deal.

So tonight when you go to bed, say a prayer for our journey. Join me in asking God to open our eyes to what he wants us to see, to open our ears to what He wants us to hear, and even more importantly, to open our mouths to speak what he would have us speak.

Thank you for all your prayers!

Tom Cox

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Monday, February 27, 2012

Good Morning from Soroti, Uganda! It rained yesterday and lat night here in Soroti. It has been so long since it rained that the ground soaked it uo faster than it could go anywhere. I always sleep so well when it rains.

Patience is a trait that you learn here in Uganda. I haven't blogged in a while, because quite frankly, there just hasn't been anything to blog about.

First, I'm currently without transportation. Last September I made arrangements to get a vehicle here in Uganda. The process of getting it here started in November. It was to be shipped from Japan. Unfortunately, it has been stuck in Mombasa, Kenya at the port. I read this morning that there are about 200 containers that are about to be auctioned off, 150 of which belong to Ugandans. The port is so clogged that is backing up the timeline for getting others out. The man I bought the car from is so frustrated that he went to Mombasa 4 weeks ago to try to get things moved along. I think it is finally on its way to Uganda, possibly at the border as I type this blog. I'm not saying when I should get the car, because frankly, I have no idea. TIA, this is Africa!

Second, we need to be drilling more bore holes. Whichever method we use to deliver the water for the irrigation project, we need to know how deep the boreholes are, so that we can get a firm quote. Without knowing the depth, you either over buy or under buy. Its just better to know. Unfortunately, the square tubing that we used was not made of thick enough steel. The tubing just twisted like a cork screw. We have ordered the correct tubing, but are still waiting for it to get here.

In the mean time, the people of Water4.org are gathering information from a wind-mill company back in the USA to see if we can use it with our bore holes here. Its so nice to have experts working on that problem.

Patience. I'm learning it! Please keep praying for me and this project.

Goodbye from Soroti!

Tom Cox

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Saturday February 18th, 2012

Its already Saturday night here in Uganda. I returned from Nairobi, Kenya on Thursday morning. So, I've been thinking the last two days on how I would describe my trip to Kenya. Don't get me wrong, Kenya was nice. The trip went very smoothly. We were met at the airport by a man named Charles Munene. He picked us up, drove us to several hotels so that we could decide between saving money or personal safety. Kenya is under a travelers advisory from the USA, but I didn't have a budget for $300.00 a night. We found a nice place called the Boulevard Hotel for about $120.00 a night for both Joseph and I. As it turned out, Charles used to work there several years ago and still knew many of the people that worked there. He was able to negotiate for us a very good rate. It seems that in Kenya, like many other countries, has a local rate and a Westerner Rate. It was good that we had Charles for the rest of the week to pick us up every morning and drive us anywhere we wanted to go for only $70.00 a day. That's less than the cost of renting the car and driving yourself back home in Oklahoma. If anyone is ever planning a trip to Nairobi, I would be happy to share his information!

So, back to why we were there in the first place. Thika, Kenya is home to Kijito Windpumps. A place where they manufacture windmills. As it turns out, they are the only place in Eastern Africa that does. We wanted to know if we could place a windmill on one of our hand bored water wells. Was our well deep enough? Would the low cost pump that we were using from water4.org work with their windmill? You see, I want to make the money that was given so generously by my church, Westmoore Community Church, be enough to provide irrigation in all three of our Villages. I believe we can, but it is taking some planning and research to make it happen. More than that, God is crossing my path with many people that I believe will make it happen.

As it turns out, windmills are a viable option for what we are doing. The low priced pumps will not work, but that's because they are designed to pump in an entirely different way. The bad news, however, is that the price of the windmills are considerably higher priced than I had ever imagined. I had already contacted some manufacturers in the US and had been given some rough estimates as to cost. The prices I was quoted in Kenya were no where near those cost. And the shipping cost they were giving me wasn't a whole lot less than what I think it would cost to ship an entire container from the US. Fortunately, Johnny Jones, who works for Swift Transportation and also attends WCC, is checking on some shipping cost. Thank You Johnny!

All in all, it was a good trip. We were able to get some questions answered that I don't think we could have done had we not went. It doesn't mean that I liked all the answers I received, but they were answers none the less. The great people at Oklahoma Pump and Water4.org are helping me with questions and answers and more questions. They have assured me, that when and if we install windmills, that they would like to be here to help make it happen.

One thing I do know now is that regardless of which way we go, the wells need to be dug to determine how deep they are. We wont be able to get accurate pricing without knowing the depth of the water. In fact, with us getting water at only twenty-one feet for the first one, it may make using a solar pump a more viable option as well.

Now you know why I have struggled to write about the trip. I feel like I have just rambled on just asking a lot of questions. Well the truth is, that is what I am doing.

On another note, I did take the time to go and visit the Nairobi National Park. What an amazing place! I was able to see giraffes, white rhinos, black rhinos, a lion, zebras, buffalo, many types of gazelles, pigs, monkeys, and many more animals in their natural habitat. They are amazingly beautiful creatures. God's work is so magnificent and beautiful!

Please keep me and this irrigation project in your prayers. Keep Uganda in your prayers!

Tom Cox

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Friday February10th, 2012

Hello everyone! This morning I have mixed emotions on writing this blog. There are some days that I am just moved to the point that I just want to write. Other days, when I know I need to, but just don't know how to say what I need to say. This is one of those days.

The last two weeks have been long weeks. There was the planning involved of receiving guest. Not just any guest, but those that were coming to change everything. In Uganda, planning doesn't come easy. Just ask anyone that has been here. There is a saying here: "Americans May Have Watches, But Ugandans Have Time!" This is so true, yet so frustrating.

In late November of 2011, Jimmy Sullivan and I went to meet with the people of Water4.org located in our home city of Oklahoma City. We had a great conversation and left there very excited about the possibilities. Those possibilities came to some fruition over these last two weeks. I am very happy to say that we have successfully installed our first bore hole in Abuleajet, Uganda.









This was a successful test drill to see if we could hand drill for water in this area. I had been told previously that we would have to go to deep to hit water in this area. We found sustainable water during this dry season at only 20' deep. Prior to this bore hole, the man you see pumping the first bit a water from this water well was making three trips a day to the nearest working water well to get enough water to cook the meals for our kids. Each about three miles round trip. That's nine miles a day, six days a week! You should have seen the smile on his face and the spring in his step as this bore hole came to fruition.





A big thanks go out to the people at water4.org and the people they work with here in Uganda, Sue, from the UK, and Sunday, from here in Uganda, both from Mission 4Water.

There is a lot more work to do here, but this is a big step in what I believe will change the lives of many. Please keep praying for this irrigation project! Please keep praying for me!

With Love!

Tom Cox

Friday, January 20, 2012

Friday January 20th, 2012 - Life Lessons

One of the most common things said to me from my friends and family back home is how proud they are of me for sacrificing so much to go to Uganda. I never know just how to take that because I really don't feel like I have given anything up. There is the obvious, my Family, my Church, the People I work with, and I could go on and on about these things that I miss, but they are relationships that I really just bring right along with me. They are a phone call, an email, or on occasion, I can even Skype them and be able to see them. Regardless, those relationships are always with me. I do miss them, but I know that when I see them again, it will be that much more special. I think most of the time, I, and maybe we all, take those for granted.

For me, the hard part about being here, now don't laugh, is the way I am catered to. I said don't laugh, because that is something that I really have a hard time dealing with. It's like the last time I moved, Robert & Margot Genzer surprised me by showing up at my new home with a dresser, and some muscle to help me get moved in. Ask Margot....... she will tell you just how hard that was for me to let them help. Then there is Jackie Taylor, she has a key to my house now that she has used to go and organize my home while I have been gone. That one is not as hard to deal with simply because I am not there to witness her doing it, but when I arrived home, the last time...... It was hard, because I could tell how much work she had done. Then there are the people that I work with. They work so hard in a Company that I really don't have a lot to do with anymore, so that I can come over here and do "missionary work".

God is working on me.

Life in Soroti is not that difficult at all. You see here at home, I have both John and Joseph. These are two young men that were abducted as teenagers by Joseph Kony and the LRA to fight in a war. On one occasion, John was almost killed instantly, by the same men he was fighting with, because he knew the direction to the home he was from. John has multiple gunshot wounds that he suffered as a child. Joseph has multiple gun shot wounds as well. One of which, sits so close to his spine that when you put your finger on it, you feel his back bone. These are two young men, that literally had their youth stolen from them. They stay here and protect me from whatever trouble may come. Whenever there is a need, they run to the store as quickly as you can say "will you" and they are off. They keep the dogs that are released every night to roam the fenced compound, fed and bathed. They make sure that I am locked in at night and okay in the morning. They are truly a blessing. How do they respond to being abducted as kids? They praise God for seeing them through it safely.

Immaculate comes every morning to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for me. She arrives at about 8:00 am and leaves around 7:00 pm. When I say cook, I mean cook. It is not as simple as going to the store and picking up a box of mix and spices or a couple of chicken breast and ground chuck. Each meal is prepared from scratch. The garlic is sliced and ground, the onions are cut and diced. Everything is done only to start preparing the next meal. Special attention is paid to what I like and what I don't. In between working on the meals...... she finds time to do my laundry and clean the house. In case you are wondering, the laundry is washed by hand and hung up to dry. When my laundry is done, it is brought back to my room neatly folded or ironed, maybe both.

Right now, I have Penninah, a twelve year old girl, and Joahan, a twenty five year old, also here to help take care of me. Penninah will be off to boarding school on the 22nd and Joahan will be leaving around the 29th to go back to the University in Kampala. Both of them work very hard to make my life easier. The entire house is swept with a small, locally made hand broom, that requires them to bend at the waist to sweep, and then mopped with a towel and a bucket of water. This is done in the morning and in the afternoon.

Yesterday two young girls arrived from one of the villages. They too have pitched in to help around the house and or compound. Their names are Harriet (age 14) and Scolla (age 17). Penninah was excited to see them, so I know they have been here before. I have met both of them before. Harriet, because she is just one of the many kids that Joseph and Anne (the owners of the home I rent) pay for their school fees. I've met Scolla before because I have visited the Village she lives at. They have both arrived because Joseph and Anne will be here later today and school will start soon. Regardless, they have both found their way into the work detail.

They sing while they work. What do they sing? They sing praises to God. When I tell them thank you, they say "no.......... thank you". "For what?"... I ask. For paying for a roof over their head and food for them to eat. For providing a job for Immaculate who supports five boys and also takes care of her father.

It sounds so rough doing mission work! The truth is, it is very hard to watch them do this much work. When I try to do my own laundry, it makes them uneasy. Its like they have done something wrong. I have tried explaining to them how uncomfortable it makes me for them to do everything and they have asked me to please let them.

I am so humbled right now to be surrounded by so good of people. They work hard because they glorify God with their work. They bless me so much. I came to serve, and yet I am served. Faith in God and Trust in Him is taught to me every day here in Uganda. I pray that I can do the things that God has sent me to do. That my eyes are open to what he wants me to see, and that I can tell some story in a way that touches you that are reading this post.

Thank you for your prayers!

Friday, January 13, 2012

Saturday Jan 14, 2012

Its early Saturday morning here in Soroti, so, I just want to follow up on what has been going on this week.

First, Peninah was accepted into the boarding school, no problem. They looked at the report we had brought from her previous school, test her, and said she would have no problems. I think the only problem Peninah had that day was my driving. She usually sits in the back and is usually asleep as soon as she gets in the car. This time she was in the front........ and had to actually see these roads, not my driving!

Thursday was payday for the workers in the village. They work Monday through Thursday, they are off on Friday to be able to go to the market, and than they come back to work on Saturday and take Sunday off as well. So on Thursday, I went with Robert to deliver the payroll. When we arrived at Acanga, they were expecting a meeting. They showed me the goats they had arrested since I had last been there. They are arranging to have a community wide meeting to further address their concerns about the animals being in the gardens and the few people who continue to allow their animals roam the gardens. I like the direction they going in, but I asked them why it was that we had to keep having meetings in Acanga? Again, I told them that these were their kids and that this was their project. They really need to get behind the workers and stand up for them when they arrest the goats and whatever else that gets into the garden. Before I left, I was treated to a potato that had been baked in the dirt. Don't know how they did it, I just know that it was good.

Above everything else that has happened this week...... I am excited about the prospect of hand-digging water wells in our gardens. From everyone I have talked to in the villages, it is very likely that we will be able to hit water within the 75 feet range. This is great news. Also, it seems that we have more wind than I remembered having here. Maybe having a windmill to pump the water is a viable option.

Sorry if I am rambling on, but I'm trying on this blog thing..... wish I was better at it. Thanks for the feedback that I have been getting. But most of all, thank you for your support and prayers!

Tom Cox

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Just A Side Note .... Jan 11, 2012

So I take every opportunity I get to meet people here in Uganda. Whether here in Soroti or in Kampala. You know those little boxes that pop up on the right side of facebook that say people you should or might know? Everytime I see someone from Uganda, I send a friend request. I have begun to meet a lot of people this way.

One of the people I have met is studying business at one of the Universities in Kampala. Hers is an interesting story. Her family lives here in Soroti. After talking to her I have learned what a struggle it is for her to go to school. And what some parents will do to send their child to school.

You see, there is a rock quarry here in Soroti. I have never been there, but others from Children's Hopechest have. You see these women sit there and pound rocks into gravel all day long. They do this by hand. They get paid about $30.00 for every truck load of gravel they produce. Thats $30.00 for every TRUCK LOAD they produce. Did I mention that this is by hand?

Thats what this girls mother has done to send her sister, and now her and her brother to college. The cost of college here in Uganda is about $800.00 per semester.

To me, that is an amazing display of love and sacrifice to show a child. I don't think I could do it. I was told that as soon as her brother and her are finished with college, the mother will quit that job.

Just a side note of a mothers love!

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Wednesday, January11, 2012

It's Wednesday morning here in Uganda and there is a busy morning ahead. Today I will take Peninah to interview at a boarding school. This is a big day for her. If she is accepted, her education will be so much better than what is provided at the public level. She is excited, but a little nervous. Maybe not as nervous as I am. This morning I have shaved, and have put on long pants.... as they say. Please join us in prayer about this.

Yesterday I finally made it to Ngariam. Thinks were really slow there since they are on school break. They won't start back until January 30th. There were, however, a handful of kids that came out to greet me. It was nice to sit there and watch them dance to Lecrae, a christian rap artist, I loaded on my iTunes before coming to Uganda. They love it.

One of the boys went to get Rose for me, and it wasn't long before the two of them came riding up on the bicycle. It is always good to see Rose. After some some talk, Robert arrived from the other carepoints. We all spoke for a while than decided that we should all load up and go and see for ourselves.

At Obulejet, things were as expected. Those guys really work hard. They have plowed additional land and we now have about 12 acres of land that is ready to be farmed. I stepped it off, there is really about 200 yards wide and 750 yards deep of land that has been plowed.

At Acanga, we arrived to see close to 10 goats that were freely grazing in the garden. This flared my temper a bit. Not in a bad way, but they needed to know that I was not happy. When we asked the workers why the goats had not been arrested they told me that the owners were tougher than they were. This really made me mad as I told them they were not tougher than the entire community. This is a community project that affects the entire community. I asked to see the LC1, which is their local official. When he arrived I told him of my displeasure. He was told that I had not, and would not spend this much money to feed goats. If they could not control this problem, I would take the money being spent there somewhere else. This was their problem not mine. The community must take action. They have decided to have a meeting. A decision will be made next week as to whether we will continue there.

Before you get worried about this. Acanga is tough! They are a very hard group to work with. They are the biggest Carepoint we have. Shutting it down is not what I hope to do. We may suspend the work being done there for a while to prove a point, but hopefully, the community will come together to rid the bullying that seems to be taking place.

Keep them in prayers. They need to find a sense of bravery to stand up as a community. Lets pray that this works.

Thanks again for everything!

Tom Cox

Friday, January 6, 2012

Saturday Jan 7, 2012

Good morning here in Uganda, but goodnight to most of you back home. Yesterday was an amazing day as I was able to witness and be apart of the first feeding for some of the "at risk" kids in Wera, Uganda. This feeding was made possible because of Childrens HopeChest, a Church in Holyoke, Colorado, and Harrah Church, in Harrah Oklahoma. It was an amazing sight to see and I was so blessed to have been able to witness this occasion. Thank you all for being faithful with what God has blessed you with.

Please allow me to ramble here for a bit. As I sat there yesterday thinking about just what was happening and how the lives of these kids was changing right before my very eyes, I just kept asking myself.......... who is more fortunate.......... these kids....... or the kids back home? These parents....... or the parents back home? The question that keeps popping into my head is do we really know how rich we are? Do we? And what really scares me is that the Bible says that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter Heaven. Its hard to put thread through the eye of a needle. How do you get a camel through there? I'm no Theologian, maybe that means something else. I hope it does! But I'm telling you....... we are rich! You are rich! Does that scare you? Because it really scares me.

In the end there is nothing I can ever do to earn my way into Heaven. It truly is a gift. But.....

James 2:14-26

New King James Version (NKJV)
Faith Without Works Is Dead
  
14 What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him? 15 If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit? 17 Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.
18 But someone will say, “You have faith, and I have works.” Show me your faith without your[a] works, and I will show you my faith by my[b] works. 19 You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe—and tremble! 20 But do you want to know, O foolish man, that faith without works is dead?[c] 21 Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered Isaac his son on the altar? 22 Do you see that faith was working together with his works, and by works faith was made perfect? 23 And the Scripture was fulfilled which says, “Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness.”[d]And he was called the friend of God. 24 You see then that a man is justified by works, and not by faith only.
25 Likewise, was not Rahab the harlot also justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out another way?
26 For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.


I told you I was going to ramble here, but I guess here is what I am saying, We live in the richest country that has ever existed. I know that there are times when we may get behind on the rent, the car payment, the cable bill, or whatever else. The list is long. I know we want to provide for our families. I know we want to dress nice. Heck, I remember being laughed at because my shoes weren't the latest and greatest. (If it wasn't the shoes, it would have been something else. Kids are mean, I was mean) So here is the question.... Have we obligated ourselves to the point that we can't help? Or do we just choose not to? Do we think that the ten percent we tithe is enough? Or do we love our neighbor as our self?

Matthew 22:36-40

New King James Version (NKJV)
36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?”
37 Jesus said to him, “ ‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”

Do I, Do we........ love ourselves just 10 percent? Is it 20 percent? Is it 30? I don't know what the answer here is. But I do know that we can't ignore the poor.

Thank you for letting me ramble. If you read this far...... I'm talking to you.

Thank you for your prayers!

Tom Cox

Sunday, January 1, 2012

January 2, 2012

Good morning all. It is now 10:24 am here in Kampala and I am packed and waiting for Joseph to pick me up. We are headed to Soroti today. Can wait to see Joseph and John. There is a slight chance that Robert will be there as well.

The two days in Kampala have been nice for adjusting to the local time. I am ready to get to work on the project. The workers have taken time off to celebrate hristmas and the New Year. They will return to work this week as well.

On another note, God is so good! I am so blessed to be here. Thank you for your prayers!

New Years 2012

It has been a long time since I have blogged. In fact, since early July, 2011. So when I say that I'm a bad blogger....... I'm a bad blogger. With that being said, I had to take a moment and share some of my thoughts.

It was midnight as we pulled into the parking garage of the hotel I am staying at in Kampala. I know this because it was at precisely that moment that the firework show started. I had arrived in time! Being here for a New Years celebration seemed appropriate.

This afternoon I spent some time with Joseph and his family. I was great to catch up with them. What I really valued, though, was the hour I got to spend with Joseph while the kids went to play. What a true Man of God he is.

I am so thankful for my friends, family, co-workers, and especially, the Church Body that I belong to. You all really bless me beyond any words that I could ever write. I love you all!