Friday, January 20, 2012

Friday January 20th, 2012 - Life Lessons

One of the most common things said to me from my friends and family back home is how proud they are of me for sacrificing so much to go to Uganda. I never know just how to take that because I really don't feel like I have given anything up. There is the obvious, my Family, my Church, the People I work with, and I could go on and on about these things that I miss, but they are relationships that I really just bring right along with me. They are a phone call, an email, or on occasion, I can even Skype them and be able to see them. Regardless, those relationships are always with me. I do miss them, but I know that when I see them again, it will be that much more special. I think most of the time, I, and maybe we all, take those for granted.

For me, the hard part about being here, now don't laugh, is the way I am catered to. I said don't laugh, because that is something that I really have a hard time dealing with. It's like the last time I moved, Robert & Margot Genzer surprised me by showing up at my new home with a dresser, and some muscle to help me get moved in. Ask Margot....... she will tell you just how hard that was for me to let them help. Then there is Jackie Taylor, she has a key to my house now that she has used to go and organize my home while I have been gone. That one is not as hard to deal with simply because I am not there to witness her doing it, but when I arrived home, the last time...... It was hard, because I could tell how much work she had done. Then there are the people that I work with. They work so hard in a Company that I really don't have a lot to do with anymore, so that I can come over here and do "missionary work".

God is working on me.

Life in Soroti is not that difficult at all. You see here at home, I have both John and Joseph. These are two young men that were abducted as teenagers by Joseph Kony and the LRA to fight in a war. On one occasion, John was almost killed instantly, by the same men he was fighting with, because he knew the direction to the home he was from. John has multiple gunshot wounds that he suffered as a child. Joseph has multiple gun shot wounds as well. One of which, sits so close to his spine that when you put your finger on it, you feel his back bone. These are two young men, that literally had their youth stolen from them. They stay here and protect me from whatever trouble may come. Whenever there is a need, they run to the store as quickly as you can say "will you" and they are off. They keep the dogs that are released every night to roam the fenced compound, fed and bathed. They make sure that I am locked in at night and okay in the morning. They are truly a blessing. How do they respond to being abducted as kids? They praise God for seeing them through it safely.

Immaculate comes every morning to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for me. She arrives at about 8:00 am and leaves around 7:00 pm. When I say cook, I mean cook. It is not as simple as going to the store and picking up a box of mix and spices or a couple of chicken breast and ground chuck. Each meal is prepared from scratch. The garlic is sliced and ground, the onions are cut and diced. Everything is done only to start preparing the next meal. Special attention is paid to what I like and what I don't. In between working on the meals...... she finds time to do my laundry and clean the house. In case you are wondering, the laundry is washed by hand and hung up to dry. When my laundry is done, it is brought back to my room neatly folded or ironed, maybe both.

Right now, I have Penninah, a twelve year old girl, and Joahan, a twenty five year old, also here to help take care of me. Penninah will be off to boarding school on the 22nd and Joahan will be leaving around the 29th to go back to the University in Kampala. Both of them work very hard to make my life easier. The entire house is swept with a small, locally made hand broom, that requires them to bend at the waist to sweep, and then mopped with a towel and a bucket of water. This is done in the morning and in the afternoon.

Yesterday two young girls arrived from one of the villages. They too have pitched in to help around the house and or compound. Their names are Harriet (age 14) and Scolla (age 17). Penninah was excited to see them, so I know they have been here before. I have met both of them before. Harriet, because she is just one of the many kids that Joseph and Anne (the owners of the home I rent) pay for their school fees. I've met Scolla before because I have visited the Village she lives at. They have both arrived because Joseph and Anne will be here later today and school will start soon. Regardless, they have both found their way into the work detail.

They sing while they work. What do they sing? They sing praises to God. When I tell them thank you, they say "no.......... thank you". "For what?"... I ask. For paying for a roof over their head and food for them to eat. For providing a job for Immaculate who supports five boys and also takes care of her father.

It sounds so rough doing mission work! The truth is, it is very hard to watch them do this much work. When I try to do my own laundry, it makes them uneasy. Its like they have done something wrong. I have tried explaining to them how uncomfortable it makes me for them to do everything and they have asked me to please let them.

I am so humbled right now to be surrounded by so good of people. They work hard because they glorify God with their work. They bless me so much. I came to serve, and yet I am served. Faith in God and Trust in Him is taught to me every day here in Uganda. I pray that I can do the things that God has sent me to do. That my eyes are open to what he wants me to see, and that I can tell some story in a way that touches you that are reading this post.

Thank you for your prayers!

Friday, January 13, 2012

Saturday Jan 14, 2012

Its early Saturday morning here in Soroti, so, I just want to follow up on what has been going on this week.

First, Peninah was accepted into the boarding school, no problem. They looked at the report we had brought from her previous school, test her, and said she would have no problems. I think the only problem Peninah had that day was my driving. She usually sits in the back and is usually asleep as soon as she gets in the car. This time she was in the front........ and had to actually see these roads, not my driving!

Thursday was payday for the workers in the village. They work Monday through Thursday, they are off on Friday to be able to go to the market, and than they come back to work on Saturday and take Sunday off as well. So on Thursday, I went with Robert to deliver the payroll. When we arrived at Acanga, they were expecting a meeting. They showed me the goats they had arrested since I had last been there. They are arranging to have a community wide meeting to further address their concerns about the animals being in the gardens and the few people who continue to allow their animals roam the gardens. I like the direction they going in, but I asked them why it was that we had to keep having meetings in Acanga? Again, I told them that these were their kids and that this was their project. They really need to get behind the workers and stand up for them when they arrest the goats and whatever else that gets into the garden. Before I left, I was treated to a potato that had been baked in the dirt. Don't know how they did it, I just know that it was good.

Above everything else that has happened this week...... I am excited about the prospect of hand-digging water wells in our gardens. From everyone I have talked to in the villages, it is very likely that we will be able to hit water within the 75 feet range. This is great news. Also, it seems that we have more wind than I remembered having here. Maybe having a windmill to pump the water is a viable option.

Sorry if I am rambling on, but I'm trying on this blog thing..... wish I was better at it. Thanks for the feedback that I have been getting. But most of all, thank you for your support and prayers!

Tom Cox

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Just A Side Note .... Jan 11, 2012

So I take every opportunity I get to meet people here in Uganda. Whether here in Soroti or in Kampala. You know those little boxes that pop up on the right side of facebook that say people you should or might know? Everytime I see someone from Uganda, I send a friend request. I have begun to meet a lot of people this way.

One of the people I have met is studying business at one of the Universities in Kampala. Hers is an interesting story. Her family lives here in Soroti. After talking to her I have learned what a struggle it is for her to go to school. And what some parents will do to send their child to school.

You see, there is a rock quarry here in Soroti. I have never been there, but others from Children's Hopechest have. You see these women sit there and pound rocks into gravel all day long. They do this by hand. They get paid about $30.00 for every truck load of gravel they produce. Thats $30.00 for every TRUCK LOAD they produce. Did I mention that this is by hand?

Thats what this girls mother has done to send her sister, and now her and her brother to college. The cost of college here in Uganda is about $800.00 per semester.

To me, that is an amazing display of love and sacrifice to show a child. I don't think I could do it. I was told that as soon as her brother and her are finished with college, the mother will quit that job.

Just a side note of a mothers love!

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Wednesday, January11, 2012

It's Wednesday morning here in Uganda and there is a busy morning ahead. Today I will take Peninah to interview at a boarding school. This is a big day for her. If she is accepted, her education will be so much better than what is provided at the public level. She is excited, but a little nervous. Maybe not as nervous as I am. This morning I have shaved, and have put on long pants.... as they say. Please join us in prayer about this.

Yesterday I finally made it to Ngariam. Thinks were really slow there since they are on school break. They won't start back until January 30th. There were, however, a handful of kids that came out to greet me. It was nice to sit there and watch them dance to Lecrae, a christian rap artist, I loaded on my iTunes before coming to Uganda. They love it.

One of the boys went to get Rose for me, and it wasn't long before the two of them came riding up on the bicycle. It is always good to see Rose. After some some talk, Robert arrived from the other carepoints. We all spoke for a while than decided that we should all load up and go and see for ourselves.

At Obulejet, things were as expected. Those guys really work hard. They have plowed additional land and we now have about 12 acres of land that is ready to be farmed. I stepped it off, there is really about 200 yards wide and 750 yards deep of land that has been plowed.

At Acanga, we arrived to see close to 10 goats that were freely grazing in the garden. This flared my temper a bit. Not in a bad way, but they needed to know that I was not happy. When we asked the workers why the goats had not been arrested they told me that the owners were tougher than they were. This really made me mad as I told them they were not tougher than the entire community. This is a community project that affects the entire community. I asked to see the LC1, which is their local official. When he arrived I told him of my displeasure. He was told that I had not, and would not spend this much money to feed goats. If they could not control this problem, I would take the money being spent there somewhere else. This was their problem not mine. The community must take action. They have decided to have a meeting. A decision will be made next week as to whether we will continue there.

Before you get worried about this. Acanga is tough! They are a very hard group to work with. They are the biggest Carepoint we have. Shutting it down is not what I hope to do. We may suspend the work being done there for a while to prove a point, but hopefully, the community will come together to rid the bullying that seems to be taking place.

Keep them in prayers. They need to find a sense of bravery to stand up as a community. Lets pray that this works.

Thanks again for everything!

Tom Cox

Friday, January 6, 2012

Saturday Jan 7, 2012

Good morning here in Uganda, but goodnight to most of you back home. Yesterday was an amazing day as I was able to witness and be apart of the first feeding for some of the "at risk" kids in Wera, Uganda. This feeding was made possible because of Childrens HopeChest, a Church in Holyoke, Colorado, and Harrah Church, in Harrah Oklahoma. It was an amazing sight to see and I was so blessed to have been able to witness this occasion. Thank you all for being faithful with what God has blessed you with.

Please allow me to ramble here for a bit. As I sat there yesterday thinking about just what was happening and how the lives of these kids was changing right before my very eyes, I just kept asking myself.......... who is more fortunate.......... these kids....... or the kids back home? These parents....... or the parents back home? The question that keeps popping into my head is do we really know how rich we are? Do we? And what really scares me is that the Bible says that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter Heaven. Its hard to put thread through the eye of a needle. How do you get a camel through there? I'm no Theologian, maybe that means something else. I hope it does! But I'm telling you....... we are rich! You are rich! Does that scare you? Because it really scares me.

In the end there is nothing I can ever do to earn my way into Heaven. It truly is a gift. But.....

James 2:14-26

New King James Version (NKJV)
Faith Without Works Is Dead
  
14 What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him? 15 If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit? 17 Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.
18 But someone will say, “You have faith, and I have works.” Show me your faith without your[a] works, and I will show you my faith by my[b] works. 19 You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe—and tremble! 20 But do you want to know, O foolish man, that faith without works is dead?[c] 21 Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered Isaac his son on the altar? 22 Do you see that faith was working together with his works, and by works faith was made perfect? 23 And the Scripture was fulfilled which says, “Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness.”[d]And he was called the friend of God. 24 You see then that a man is justified by works, and not by faith only.
25 Likewise, was not Rahab the harlot also justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out another way?
26 For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.


I told you I was going to ramble here, but I guess here is what I am saying, We live in the richest country that has ever existed. I know that there are times when we may get behind on the rent, the car payment, the cable bill, or whatever else. The list is long. I know we want to provide for our families. I know we want to dress nice. Heck, I remember being laughed at because my shoes weren't the latest and greatest. (If it wasn't the shoes, it would have been something else. Kids are mean, I was mean) So here is the question.... Have we obligated ourselves to the point that we can't help? Or do we just choose not to? Do we think that the ten percent we tithe is enough? Or do we love our neighbor as our self?

Matthew 22:36-40

New King James Version (NKJV)
36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?”
37 Jesus said to him, “ ‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”

Do I, Do we........ love ourselves just 10 percent? Is it 20 percent? Is it 30? I don't know what the answer here is. But I do know that we can't ignore the poor.

Thank you for letting me ramble. If you read this far...... I'm talking to you.

Thank you for your prayers!

Tom Cox

Sunday, January 1, 2012

January 2, 2012

Good morning all. It is now 10:24 am here in Kampala and I am packed and waiting for Joseph to pick me up. We are headed to Soroti today. Can wait to see Joseph and John. There is a slight chance that Robert will be there as well.

The two days in Kampala have been nice for adjusting to the local time. I am ready to get to work on the project. The workers have taken time off to celebrate hristmas and the New Year. They will return to work this week as well.

On another note, God is so good! I am so blessed to be here. Thank you for your prayers!

New Years 2012

It has been a long time since I have blogged. In fact, since early July, 2011. So when I say that I'm a bad blogger....... I'm a bad blogger. With that being said, I had to take a moment and share some of my thoughts.

It was midnight as we pulled into the parking garage of the hotel I am staying at in Kampala. I know this because it was at precisely that moment that the firework show started. I had arrived in time! Being here for a New Years celebration seemed appropriate.

This afternoon I spent some time with Joseph and his family. I was great to catch up with them. What I really valued, though, was the hour I got to spend with Joseph while the kids went to play. What a true Man of God he is.

I am so thankful for my friends, family, co-workers, and especially, the Church Body that I belong to. You all really bless me beyond any words that I could ever write. I love you all!